Dear EFAP: I'm too tired to talk to my partner at night
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I am miserable. All my partner wants to do it talk about stuff late at night. I am exhausted. It is not a lie. I work long shifts with demanding patients and I am really just tired. She is very sensitive and goes off when I say that I need to go to sleep. I am getting tired of her reactions. So what do you think? Simply put, is it alright to just be honest and say I really care for her and we can talk in the morning , but I cannot talk now as I am completely exhausted and need to go to bed?
- Too tired to talk
Dear Too tired to talk,
Simply put… Yes.
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